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April 29, 2009

Landlords who are NOT slum!

Filed under: General, People, Places, economy, family and friends, u.s. — ruthie @ 5:46 pm

I rent, I used to own, but now I rent. My house is old, the plumbing is suspect, there is a pile of leaves, dirt, and insects on the roof that worry me to no end. Some of the windows don’t close all of the way and some of the electricity can’t be fixed without a major overhaul. Our shower door is held closed using a huge binder clip and the kitchen is the original and dates back about 60 years. We cannot broil anything in the oven and it runs about 50 degrees too high, but it is home and we want to stay.  We moved in at a time when rents were at their cheapest in years and have lived here almost 4 years – our landlords have never raised the rent and they could. In the recent economic hardships we find our selves living pay check to pay check and the option of moving is out of the question.

So, when my family joined the many of people who have found at least one household member out of work and another barely making enough money, we needed to help. We got help from places we expected to find it – family. Never did I expect that our landlords would be people that would also provide help. If it wern’t for their generosity, patience and willingness to work with us and come up with an agreement on paying our rent, we would surely find ourselves without a home of our own. Not every landlord is slum and I hope that we’re not alone.

April 7, 2009

Aroma Therapy for the Soul

Filed under: General, family and friends, food, fun, health, religion — Tags: — ruthie @ 8:48 pm

This year, with the economy in a tail spin, my travel funds have been depleted and I am unable to make the exodus out of California to the promised land of the midwest for my usual seder with my family, only the second time in my life – the first time I was in my last month of pregnancy with my son. For the first time, I am hosting a seder at my house, with not one single family member present other than my husband and my kids. I must admit, I am out of my element here. I don’t even own a hagaddah – the book that tells the story of Passover. I have invited a couple of families from my community and will hope to find the order in the chaos of hosting. This will be a passover meal without gefilte fish – again a first – we’re spoiled,  we’ve had homemade gefilte fish at every seder – can’t even think of buying some. This morning, I got up early to start the chicken soup, and as the morning went on my house started to fill with smell of soup slowly simmering on the stove. And while I will miss my family dearly, this morning I feel more connected to my family both alive and dead as the smells of passover begin to fill my home.  Ahhhh – Aroma Therapy for the Soul.

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